I realize that the title of this post sounds more appropriate for November than it does for January. Let me explain. My Mom bought me a devotional book by Beth Moore called Praying God's Word Day by Day. Here is part of the prayer for today:
Please help me be willing to sow the seed of Your Word and to water it with my tears, believing you in the midst of my pain. If I do, You will be faithful to fill me with joy again. You will faithfully bring a harvest forth from my life. My suffering will not be in vain.
You, the God of all grace, who called me to Your eternal glory in Christ, will restore me and make me strong, firm and steadfast after I have suffered a little while (I Peter 5:10).
Can I get an AMEN? I know that my joy will be restored. I know that I am spiritually stronger now than I was when I began 2007. Do I still wake up with a broken heart everyday? Yes. But I can, without a doubt, say that God has walked every step of this journey with me (as many of you have) and he isn't going to bail on me now. I am ready to bring forth a harvest in my life.
While I'm on this subject, I want to do my part in getting the word out that January is National Birth Defect Prevention Month. And guess what else? January 8-14 is National Folic Acid Awareness Week. I know that you are sooo excited!
Before I totally lose anyone who is reading this, let me just tell you this one thing: If you are of childbearing age, have not had your tubes tied, and your husband hasn't been under the knife, PLEASE strongly consider taking extra amounts of folic acid as part of your daily routine.
Olivia was not a "planned" pregnancy. We had thought we would wait at least 2 more years before adding to our family. But little "surprises" happen. Taking extra folic acid isn't bad for you. You cannot overdose on it. To put it crudely, you pee off whatever your body doesn't need.
Had I been on extra folic acid would it have prevented Olivia's birth defect? Probably not. Most likely it wouldn't have. But many birth defects can absolutely be avoided by taking folic acid. I know that you have all heard this before. I used to read Take Folic Acid and would stop reading the rest of the paragraph. Thinking blah, blah, blah, it won't happen to me. But here I am. It did happen. It does happen.
By the way, in honor of Birth Defect Awareness Month (just kidding), Greg and I will be gone all next week with some friends on a cruise. I have a new camera (thank you Greg!) so I will try to share some of our pics when I get back. Have a great week!







8 comments:
Yippe! A cruise, how fun!! Can't wait to see some pictures when ya'll get back.
you are too funny, Terri and I were laughing at parts of your post. I didn't know that all that was going on this month, so thanks...I AM really excited. :)
HOpe you have a good time on your cruise.
You are such an encouragement to me!!! I have heard Beth Moore talk about sowing with tears. Powerful! That's really cool that you're doing this study to possibly help others. BTW, your blog reminded me to go take my folic acid. Thanks!Have a blast on your cruise!
Hi Shannon,
I am a friend of Melissa Hicks and my husband and I went to school with Parrish. I have heard many good things about you and just wanted to say that our family is still praying for you guys. I hope you and your husband come back from your cruise feeling renewed!
Hey Shannon! I found your blog through Jo Ellyn and I am amazed by your faith and strength. Jo shared some things that have happened in your life and I want you to know that I have prayed for you and your family and that your are an encouragement to me. I know the Lord smiles on you, Shannon. I am excited to keep up with you this way and I love the pics of your kids (just beautiful). If you send me your email I will put you on my readers list. My email is holly.neely@sbcglobal.net. Hope to hear from you soon. I love keeping in touch with my sweet high school friends.
Love,
Holly (Nichols) Neely
Some how I found your blog..I am so sorry for your loss...I have been there...our first child, Kenny died at 3 days of age due to undetermined causes, that was about 5 and half years ago. I am not sure if you recall that. We saw your mother for grief counseling. I just want to let you know that if you need someone to talk to that understands some what you are feeling, please contact me (I know I don't know your exact feelings because just as each child is unique so are our stories) you and your family are in my prayers..I for one know how incredibly tough this journey is..
Laura Martin Butts
laurazone74@aol.com
Hi Shannon,
It's Traci Busby Johnston. I've found your site through Lana. You have a beautiful family. I remember the night you met Greg. I big group of us girls had gone out to eat at Chili's. It nice to connect with you again. I just created a blogspot. The address is http://tracijohnstonfamily.blogspot.com/
Shannon, I just got your comment on my blog and wanted to comment back... thank you for taking the time.
You sound like you have light hearted moments, too. I *like* that.
I feel joy so much more often than I don't when I think on and remember Eden.
I hope you have lots of those moments too.
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